A husband loving his wife as Christ loves the Church is about willingly seeking her highest good. This message from Ephesians 5 shows that this servant-leadership love should be unconditional, active, and ongoing. There are many twisted ideas about the headship of the husband in the home. Scripture is clear, however, that this headship is not a dictatorship, but comes with great responsibility and accountability to Christ. The husband is to model Christ’s care, sanctification, and commitment so that his wife feels secure, and flourishes—fostering harmony, oneness, and mutual respect.